Yes, Yes, let's be intimate. Yes, let's touch. But what Sandberg seems to be ignoring is that the erect phallus is an object of idolatry that has been deeply embedded in human consciousness since the very beginning of culture. Idolatry, btw, doesn't give a flying f**k about gender. When a symbol that powerful has been front and center for millennia, it's pretty difficult to disregard.