Wow! What insight! As a cis man and a queer feminist, I'm constantly outraged by displays of toxic masculinity, often embarrassed to be a man because of the way so many men behave. But that same toxicity also infects the person who displays and personifies it. It's just as sad that they have been raised to act like cavemen as it is for those they insult and abuse. Perhaps more compassion is called for and less judgment. It might help some men caught in that cycle to see another way.