The Truth About Bisexual Men Like Me

Rand Bishop
5 min readMay 7, 2021

Go ahead. Call me a fool, an idiot, an imbecile, a moron. I’ve articulated those same self-incriminations and worse. But, here’s the truth: I’m not alone in my foolishness. If men like me were rare, I’d be less challenged to make wiser choices. I’m just one in millions of bisexual men who secretly cruise for and engage in casual sex with strangers. I can’t produce hard data to verify my guesstimation of “millions.” It’s a calculation based on years — no, decades — of personal experience. And, as it is the survival instinct of nearly every male bisexual to keep it on the downlow, reaching an…

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Rand Bishop

Bishop's latest book, the semi-autobiographical novel, Long Way Out, is available in e- and print editions through most major online booksellers.