I was disappointed that the subject of LGBTQ+ rights didn't come up in the debate, too. But, I was even more disappointed that the moderators didn't devote adequate time to the issues that most people are deeply concerned about... the cost of housing, for one, the struggle to get by, the evaporation of the dream of building wealth and owning a home.

Trans issues are the new political third rail, just like same-sex marriage was 25 years ago. The more attention devoted to it, the more evangelicals and Christian fundamentalists feel motivated to vote... and, it's no secret who they will be voting for. Pushing the issue at this point in time is the equivalent of poking a hornet's nest.

I think VP Harris made a calculated decision to let her facial expression speak to the absurdity of Trump's claims about children being forcibly transitioned at school. She believed it was simply so absurd as to not be worthy of any more response than a smirk and a shake of the head.

But, when it comes to attitudes and policies regarding LGBTQ+ folks, the contrast between the party nominees is totally clear, as demonstrated by the two party conventions. The GOP held a circus of toxic masculinity. The Dems put on a celebration of diversity and inclusion.

I empathize with your pervading sense of fear. And I fear that the threat will probably only get worse after the election... regardless of who wins. In the meantime, queer and trans folk need to stand strong together. The Right would love nothing more than to see our community fractured and fighting amongst ourselves. Peace, my friend. Sending a virtual hug.