I guess one of the advantages of growing older is that you have a greater vocabulary to call upon. I haven't heard the word "lech" (short for lecher) in decades. Thanks for bringing it back!
On the flip side, I know what you mean that "It's hard to pinpoin the exact day it happens." I often wonder when women stopped looking at me "that way." Not feeling as attractive and desirable as I did in my younger years still wrankles me on occasion. Peace.